I've been informed that my blog has now come into a much wider readership. Fame and adulation must surely follow; two followers! Those of you who are regular readers of my brother paddy's blog, Pozdrowienia z Ursynowa might have read a rather erudite post about our family, it's history, and and introduction to me. My thanks to him.
Looking back at how our one side of our own family came to be in England really does give you the sense that they didn't really know what they were doing. Was it a risk? Most definitely - and out of that risk grew a life, a home, and children, and then grandchildren; my brothers and I. In making my own move to the States I often thought about others who might have made similar decisions, motivated by a myriad of different reasons. Those who have taken such a leap are almost always faced by challenge - language (thankfully not in my case....not too much), adjusting and settling in, finding work, making a home and so on. Yet those challenges bear their own rewards, perhaps not immediately apparent - but looking back you may well be able to dot those I's and cross those T's. Oh no, this is starting to sound suspiciously like Steve Job's commencement address, Jobs! I'm a fraud.
Moving swiftly on - during our eldest brother Richard's wedding a week and a half ago, Paddy (my blogging brother) and I, as best men, attempted to give a speech that summed him up - in short, as a man without qualities. Amongst some rather blue and unrepeatable filth we both touched on our bond as brothers - how important this is to all three of us, and how it has provided the grounding in who we are and where we are headed. Hence the title of this post, what is past is prologue, a quote from the Tempest brought to my attention by a statue outside the National Archives here in DC: 'The Future' For me, now (not accounting for the existential despair in the Shakespearean context) that means: what has gone before prepares us for what is next, what we have learnt informs our future, whether that's moving abroad, changing your job, your life, whatever that next step might be...
Before my brother moved away to Poland I remember wondering what might be next for me. He flew off on his adventure just a few days before my wife came to visit the UK for the first time. Looking back, it was keeping an open mind that helped both of us make our choices, and thank god for that - why would you want to be any other way? Eulogising over and to humour we turn - to commemorate our year living together Paddy and I decided to toast to the future with a day of nonsense and tomfoolery in London, a few days before he skipped off to Polska. You can view the results via the following link: Being a Ney.
Here's to taking risks and honking on your vuvuzela! Enjoy!
Cheszt and Chin Chin.


